By Bisola Bello
Many people complain about their relationship and how unfaithful their partners are. While some people have a high tendency to go astray, the truth is that many are often clueless about how to make their significant other happy or how to keep them faithful. Most people cheat when they are emotionally and sexually dissatisfied. Some cheat because they find their current relationship very boring.
Here are some ways to always keep your spouse happy and faithful
- Always care for your partner
Just because you have been dating or married to your partner for years doesn’t mean you have to stop caring. A relationship is an unending cycle of knowing what your partner wants. If you treat your partner like you did when you first met, then he or she knows they are very important to you.
- Always use the L-word
The grove in a relationship can be lost when partners fail to assure each other every chance they get that they are still as in love as they were before. Always tell your partner you love him or her. It can be as cheesy as possible. Maybe via text message with those three words ‘I love you’. It will come as a surprise and is even more impressive.
- Stay sexy
As a male don t act unsexy because you feel your partner already knows the worst about you. As a female you should know by now that every man is interested in a woman that is incredibly sexy. You don’t have to be a supermodel; just make sure all necessary parts are in the right place. Most importantly, feel sexy.
- Be trustworthy
Many relationships crumble because of lack of trust. Unfortunately, women tend to lose trust in men very fast. Don’t get yourself hypertensive trying to know everything your husband is doing. Do your part and trust that your relationship is good. Most men actually love women that believe they are faithful to them.
- Be flirty
Flirting keeps the passion alive. A little flirting won’t hurt anyone. It keeps romance going and foretells a good sexual relationship
- Act as a support system
No one wants to be in a relationship with someone that tears them down. In order for your spouse to stay happy, always show support every little way you can. No matter how hard it is, it is important you know that your spouse will always need your support in every situation.
- Be the encyclopaedia
It is very crucial to know every little detail about your partner. Know what makes him or her excited and what gets him or her down. These little things are a form of assurance that you truly care.
- Let them know the consequences
If at all your spouse is misbehaving then it is necessary that they know the consequences. This doesn’t mean scream and shout or threaten to leave but you can say you will do the same. Nobody can bear to see their woman or man with another person except the relationship is really dead.
- Respect your partner’s privacy
Everyone needs their privacy from time to time. You have to give your partner his or her ‘me’ time. This also adds flavour to the relationship when you don’t have to clinch on each other every time.
- Thrill your partner in bed
It is no secret that most relationships and marriages break because of lack of good sex. As a man or woman, do all you can to make sure you give your husband or wife what he or she can’t get elsewhere. And like the Mafia Manager says, few indeed are the conflicts that cannot be solved between the sheets.
