By Bisola Bello
Whether he is a teenager, middle aged or a senior citizen, men are generally not as complicated as you think when it comes to getting them to like you.
Below are some major tips on how to get a man to like you. They come with money back guarantee.
- Be yourself
This may seem like a normal advice but it is the most important one, especially for ladies. Many ladies lose the man they really want because of their inability to be themselves. When you fake who you are, most sensible men will see right through you. Be exactly who you are in a polite way and let him fall for the real you.
- Make sure you look good
Let’s face it, every man wants a woman that looks good and appeal to his visual senses. It doesn’t necessarily mean dress like a cheap girl or rob a bank but at least be classy. This will make a man want to take you out more often because he knows you are someone he’d like to show off.
- Be the good listener
Many men avoid getting in relationships with women because they feel ladies do more talking rather than listen. In order to get a man to like you, do the opposite of what he thinks ladies do. Listen to him talk and engage in the conversation even if it’s boring. Remember, you are the one trying to get him to like you.
- Make your feelings obvious
Many ladies complain that they have been in love with a man for years but he doesn’t seem to notice them. That may sometimes be the ladies’ fault. Most men aren’t very insightful and only take a hint when you make your feelings obvious. This means that no matter how many signs you show that you like him, at a point you have to say it out loud.
- Have good hygiene
To get a man to like you, you have to look presentable which means you have to act like a lady by having clean hair, clothes and face. You must swear by a daily health and beauty regime without having to go broke.
- Cook for him
Every African lady knows the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. Make a very good meal for the man you are trying to impress. To go over the top, you can prepare his favourite meal.
- Befriend his friends
Every man wants you to be besties with their friends and family. That way, they feel they don’t have to decide who to hang out with. To get a man to be interested in you, become friends with his close friends. By impressing his friends you end up impressing him. Just remember to let him know you are interested in dating him and not one of his friends.
- Compliment him
As a lady, don’t be fooled by the idea that only females love compliment. Men also appreciate compliments from time to time. By giving him compliments you are letting him know you are seriously crushing on him.
- Engage in mutual interest
They must be a reason a particular man interests you; one of these reasons can be something that interests you both. To get a man to real interest in you, you can engage in those mutual interests that can lead to romantic scenarios.
- Get touchy
Just because this last advice tells you to get touchy doesn’t mean act like a pervert. In order to make your feelings obvious, when he says something funny, you can touch his shoulder. Sit very close to him if you have the chance to. A tap on the lap is also not a bad idea.
