Self-acclaimed relationship coach Solomon Buchi has advised that it is wrong for men to have their mothers as their next of kin.
Buchi stated this in a Twitter thread on Friday following unconfirmed reports that PSG and Morocco star Achraf Hakimi outsmarted his wife Hiba Abouk in divorce proceedings.
The 36-year-old Abouk was said to have demanded more than half of Hakimi’s assets and fortune during the proceedings.
However, the court reportedly heard the Moroccan named all his assets with his mother as the benefactor.
It also reportedly heard that 80% of Hakimi’s monthly PSG salary, which amounts to around €1 million, goes to his mother.
The report has generated a lot of debate on social media.
Joining in the discourse, Buchi said men who cannot trust their wives should not marry them in the first place.
He wrote, “Your next of kin should be your wife not your mother. Your assets should have your wife’s name on them too. This is biblical marriage; you have become one in Holy Matrimony. If you can’t trust a woman with your riches, don’t marry her. Why marry who you don’t trust with your ALL?
“This will probably get a lot of pushback from the redpilled movement, because of the recent Hakimi’s case: a successful footballer whose wife filed for divorce and division of his assets and properties, only to discover that he put all his fortunes in his mother’s name.”
For women who marry rich men to incentivize the marriage, he wrote, “And yes, women who also marry rich men, with intentions to incentivize the marriage through later divorce are wrong too, but we can’t correct a wrong with a wrong. Literally, the scriptures states that a man needs to leave his father and mother to be married.
“And men, do your due diligence before you marry. If you can’t trust her, don’t marry her, because marriage without trust is like roommates living together. Hakimi did it doesn’t make it right. Don’t start off wrong. Things still work the right way.”
