Lonely? Single? A place to meet a potential soul mate is a nightclub, and there are many of them in Lagos. However, some women frequent clubs every weekend but no one has said hello let alone try to woo them.
While some people frown at meeting a partner at a club some people don’t mind. Whichever divide you belong, Jumia Travel gathers five reasons why you are not being noticed whenever you go clubbing in Lagos.
- You are not ‘responsibly’ dressed
Some night crawlers have the perception that because they are going to the club they can dress irresponsibly. Rather than use ‘beautiful’ to describe you, ‘hot’ will be the preferred word. Without any doubt, your eye-popping dressing will get people’s attention, but you are most likely to end up a nearby hotel for a one night stand. Nothing more.
- You are intoxicated
There is no club in Lagos that does not serve alcohol which is an important part of nightlife. However, if you want to meet someone, you have to keep a clear head. Staying away from alcohol won’t be a bad idea. But if you decide to drink, don’t drink until you get intoxicated and start embarrassing yourself.
- You are judgemental
A guy approaching you at a bar may not be serious. At the same time, he may be serious. But how will you know if you don’t hear him out? Remember, both of you are in the club. You don’t have the right to judge him based on the fact that you meet at a club. That’s hypocrisy.
- You are too busy with friends
Having a great time with friends is one of the best experiences in the world. However, if you are always with your friends, you may not meet someone. At the club, try to find an alone time. This will give you the opportunity to meet persons outside your circle of friends.
- Your body language is confusing
For a lady who wants to meet someone, you should be aware of body language. This will stop you from unconsciously sending the wrong signal. If a guy is looking at you, don’t smile or look towards him if you are not interested.
