August 31 is celebrated as National Orgasm Day in some countries.
The fad has not caught on in Nigeria, but many of our women would love a day when they would not have to ‘fake it’.
With over 60 percent regularly not reaching orgasm, we present 10 tips to give your partner a toe-curling experience today, and hopefully ever after.
1. Indulge in foreplay- spend three times the time in foreplay that you spend on actual intercourse.
2. Don’t rush, be relaxed in bed, if your heart is surging – lie back and slow down for a minute or two.
3. Foreplay means kissing, massaging and stroking different parts of the body. Both partners should participate and first do it to each other and then do it simultaneously.
4. Enter vagina only when your partner is fully wet and ready for you.
5. Playing with nipples and gentle sucking on the nipples and breasts can often make the vagina wet and ready for intercourse.
6. Oral sex can stimulate a woman’s genitalia too and get her be ready for the man.
7. Experiment with different positions.
8. After entering vagina stroke slowly. Rub the head of the organ against the clitoris a few times to excite your partner further.
9. If you think you are ready to ‘come’ slow down for a few seconds. Be still. Change your position if necessary.
10. Invite your partner to get on top and do the stroking part for sometime and once she tires out mount her again.
