Timi Dakolo, Daddy Freeze fight dirty over divorce, tithe

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Singer, Timi Dakolo, and radio presenter, Daddy Freeze, took the gloves off on Wednesday as they got into a bitter fight over divorce and tithe.

It started after the Idols West Africa winner took a swipe at people getting married in a post on Instagram.

Describing this generation as shallow and impatient, the 36-year-old advised people to come into marriage prepared and stop giving the institution a bad name.

That piece of sermon didn’t go down well with happily divorced Freeze, whose toxic marriage to Opeyemi was the subject of media scrutiny.

“So pastor Oyakhilome that got divorced is an incomplete person abi?” the Eminem of Nigerian social media began.

Narrating how a friend almost got killed and referencing his own marriage, Freeze wrote: “I am a living testimony that divorce from a bad situation is a HUGE BLESSING, as in baba blessing, my entire family and I rejoice every day, thanking God for the gift of divorce.”

Timi then betrayed an ill feeling he had had for Freeze and how he had “waited for a day like this like a child waiting for a new toy” particularly over his “shallow doctrine of not to pay tithe and how our offerings are going to the pastors pocket”.

@daddyfreeze I HAVE WAITED FOR THIS DAY LIKE A CHILD WAITING FOR A NEW TOY.. FIRST LET ME ADDRESS YOUR TEACHING PEOPLE THIS SHALLOW DOCTRINE OF NOT TO PAY TITHE AND HOW OUR OFFERINGS ARE GOING TO THE PASTORS POCKET… ALL YOUR TALK ABOUT PASTORS AND HOW THEY SPEND OUR TITHES …WE AS CHRISTIANS GIVE OUR OFFERING/TITHE TO GOD,WEATHER PASTOR CHOP OR NOT NA HIM GO ANSWER TO GOD..AND GOD WILL BE BLESSING US FOR GIVING .STOP YOUR MISLEADING INNOCENT MIND AND DEMONIC TEACHING… (TO THE PEOPLE LOOKING AT THE WOMAN WHO BROKE HER ALABASTER BOX..IT WAS A WASTE).. TO JESUS,IT WAS AN OFFERING… A CANAL MIND CANNOT UNDERSTAND THE THINGS OF THE SPIRIT.. AND LET ME TREAT THIS YA JUMPING INTO THIS MY TALK.. ON MARRIAGE .. OGA FREEZE I RESPECT YOU AS AN ELDER BUT HONESTLY.. YOU DON’T HAVE ANY RIGHT TO TALK MARRIAGE AND GIVE ADVICE OR EVEN CONTRIBUTE ANY LITTLE BIT.. MY RESPECT FOR WENT DOWN THE DRAIN THE DAY I SAW YOU CALL THE MOTHER THAT GAVE YOU CHILDREN USELESS.. I MEAN THE WORD USELESS TO THE MOTHER OF YOUR CHILDREN.. WHAT IS LOWER THAN THAT? GUY GO BOIL BEANS OR PEEL EGUSI.. MEN KNOW WHAT TO SAY AND WHEN TO SAY THEM.. MY BROTHER FEAR GOD.. HE’S WAYS ARE NOT LIKE OURS .. CHRISTIANS PAY YOUR TITHE ..IT IS TO GOD..AND YOUNG PEOPLE I WILL SAY IT AGAIN.. DON’T RUSH INTO MARRIAGE.. BE CERTAIN .. NO HUMAN BEING WILL COMPLETE YOU..FOREVER IS A LONG TIME TO MAKE SUCH MISTAKE.. LADIES LET ME TELL YOU THE TRUTH.. ALL MEN LOVE CURVES AND BOOBS AND BEAUTIFUL FACE. BUT WE WOULD FOREVER RESPECT A COMPLETE AN INTELLIGENT WOMAN.. COME INTO MARRIAGE PREPARED.. IT’S NOT AN AFTER PARTY,YOU CANT JUST STAND UP AND LEAVE.. APART FROM DOMESTIC WHICH I DON’T SUPPORT.. TRY AND MAKE IT WORK..ITS A PARTNERSHIP OF TWO COMPLETE PEOPLE..YOU NEED PATIENCE,UNDERSTANDING AND A VERY HIGH LEVEL OF COMMUNICATION.. FOR TO LOVE SOMEONE IS TO KNOW THAT PERSON A GREAT DEAL..

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Of course, Freeze fired back, telling Timi to go read his Bible and spend more time writing music, not for blogs.

@timidakolo unlike you, I haven’t waited all my life to respond to you, why should I? Who are you and where’s the sense in what you write or what you stand for? – You are a product of this same shallow doctrine yourself, the churches you perform at, where do you think they get the money to pay from? – You speak about marriage, how long you been married for? What do you know? You say I don’t have the right to comment on marriage, who gave you the license to comment? – I was married for 10 whole years, you dingbat! If I can’t comment on marriage, WHO CAN? – You call my teachings ‘demonic’, why don’t you back yours up with the Bible? My demonic teachings have full biblical support, how would you know? Do you read your bible? – You follow pastors like sheep up and down, is it now paining you that they could be giving more gigs to younger artists, and you are now crying on the internet? – Do you think I’m so stupid as not to know what that forlorn dirge you pasted on the internet about (ARE YOU SURE YOU ARE BUILDING YOUR DREAM OR THE PASTOR’S OWN..) stood for? – You say you give tithe and offering to God when you give it to a pastor, is that what God said in Deuteronomy 14:22-26 or in Nehemiah 10:38? Do you have a copy of the Bible at all? I suggest you get yourself one. – I shouldn’t be educating you, but do read from Matthew 25:32 to know what it takes to “give to God” and ‘pastor’ or ‘man of God’ isn’t in the equation. – You don’t know shit about my marriage, so you have no right whatsoever to comment on it, I didn’t comment on yours, or how you are handling it, so don’t get personal, your life is far from perfect. – Typing in caps is shouting your words, NOT YOUR MESSAGE, which remains as vacuous as the writer. – You lost respect for me? I never had any for you! Sorry, but I’m not big on pulpit puppets. – Maybe if you spent more time writing music than writing for the blogs, more kids won’t be wondering “who’s timi dakolo?” ~FRZ – #FreeTheSheeple

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In what looks like a dig at Freeze’s light skin, Timi, who is presently in California, posted a picture of him standing in the sun while some fair complexioned people are in the pool, writing “LA sun is not for the faint-hearted”.

LA SUN IS NOT FOR THE FAINT HEARTED.. PHOTOCREDIT @socialmayor

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